jeruk buah melaka...

salam...

aku sdg menikmati jeruk buah melaka! hahaha... sedap btoi la, susah gak nak dpt kat sini. skali aku jupa kat star parade, apa lg, dok pulun pi angkut la..

ermm.. sebenaqnya aku nak crita apa hah? tadak crita sgt pun. cuma aku tak jadi pi cover Lima Langkawi. Alhamdulillah la, coz KP aku memahami keadaan diri ini, so dia tak paksa. so terpaksa la colleague aku mengganti aku di saat akhir... tp rasa rugi gak sbb peluang tu mmg best sbb geng2 yg kamceng suma ada kat sana.. huhu.. tinggallah hamba bersama adik2 di mainland nih ha... well, tu ja la kot, tadak idea.. huhu

salam aidiladha...

assalamualaikum..

sekejap ja, aidiladha menjengah lagi...

emm.. best btoi dpt berkumpul dgn suma famili kat kampung nanti.

abah as usual, insyaAllah akan melaksanakan tugasnya sbg penyembelih lembu di pagi raya spt tahun2 lepas gak. aku suka raya korban nih coz dpt makan daging fresh puas2. aku suka bakaq, ermmm lazatnya. pastu pakat sakit perut sbb panas. haha..

slalunya raya haji nih, kami tak bjalan sgt, cos abah kena penuhi jemputan menyembelih lembu sampai raya ketiga. ari tu aku dok sembang ngan abah, dia bgtau sehari 5-6 ekoq gak la dia kena sembelih. ish jenuh gak no.. tp abah cakap, benda baik, apa salahnya membantu, takkan nak tolak kot.. lgpun dia sembelih ja, bab lapah melapah tu serah kat org lain la...

aktiviti sembelih-menyembelih nih rancak pas solat raya la.. 1st kat umah aku dulu la. selalunya ramai yg buat kat umah aku ja (pakat ambik bahagian ja, takla sampai sekoq). pastu baru abah atuq jemputan, ikut 'first come, first serve'...

well, tu ja kot utk kali nih, last but not least "SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDILADHA n SEMOGA PENGORBANAN KITA DIBERKATI ALLAH SWT, INSYAALLAH"

Until the time is through

*lagu feveret zaman skolah :)
beautiful words...

Now and forever
Until the time is through
I can't believe it
I don't know where to start
No baby
So many questions
Deep inside my heart
Give me a moment before you go
There's something you ought to know
Baby now and forever
Until the time is through
I'll be standing here
Waiting and never
Give up my faith in you
Trying to make it clear
Without your love I'd be half a man
Maybe one day you'll understand
Now and forever
Until the time is through
I'll be waiting
How can I tell you
So that you can see
You know that
Love has a meaning
When you are here with me
There is no one to comfort me
Here in my cold reality
I'm searching for words
What can I say
To make you see
Baby now
Until time
Is through
I'll be here...

the list...

Bernama bercadang menghantar tujuh petugas bagi tugasan LIMA 09, yang terdiri daripada:

1. Leslean Arshad (hq)
2.Mohd Haikal Isa (biro Johor)
3. Nor Baizura Basri (hq)
4. Mahanun Abdul Aziz (hq)
5. Shuhaida Mohd Said (biro kedah)
6. Kassim Saad (hq)
7. Azhan Pidek (hq)

ermmmm... nampak gayanya barisan senior dan bos akan bersamaku nanti...
Ya Allah, kurniakan kekuatan yang sangat kuat kepadaku nanti. semoga dapat melaksanakan tugas dengan baik dan sempurna. Amiiiinn...

LIMA 09

this year, aku kena cover LIMA 09 kat langkawi..

wah, agak berat tugasan tersebut dalam keadaan aku yg tak brapa fit nih. tp sayang gak kalu aku reject, takble tgk fighter jet free.. hihi...i'll try my best and harap2 team dr KL ok and supportive. kalu tak, penat gak la aku nanti. harap2 by dat time, aku dah fit. skarang pun dah rasa kurang lemah2 badan nih. apa2 pun, aku nak gak la cover LIMA tu. syok kalu keja luaq opis, stress kureng punya... hihi nih antara fighter jets yg ada nanti:

SUKHOI SU 30 MKM

MIG 29N

F16

buat sendiri la...

bg org yg tak reti baking cake nih, dapat wat gini, kira hebat la kan... hehe... aku nih cuma cekap masak kategori lauk pauk ja...

lawak btoi la kek aku naik sbelah, jadiknya tinggi sbelah... hihi

rasa ok gak la, tp tak brapa naik btoi, so kurang gebu...

pasnih nak try lagi la :)

Morning sickness linked to smarter babies

~ I’m in the middle of ‘mega-fatigue’ phase !!!
I’ve experienced morning sickness before (during my 1st pregnancy) but this time... WORSE !!! Sangat meletihkan dan memenatkan sampai I feel like wanna pass it on to my hasben.. huaaaahaaha… but after I read an article, I feel a bit release… walaupun I still cant bear the symptom, but at least, I feel a bit good and thankful.. just wanna share this with u guys, happy reading! ~

Thu, Apr 23, 2009 (HealthDay News) -- Children born to mothers who have morning sickness may be smarter than those whose moms don't have nausea and vomiting during pregnancy, suggests a new study.

Researchers found that the children of mothers with morning sickness scored higher on tests designed to assess children's IQ and mental acuity, the Canadian Press reported.

But while this difference was statistically significant, it doesn't mean that children born to mothers who didn't have nausea during pregnancy are developmentally slow, said senior author Dr. Gideon Koren, director of the Motherisk Program at the Hospital for Sick Children in Toronto.

It's just that the other children scored higher on the tests.

The study appears in the Journal of Pediatrics.Nausea has long been recognized as a sign of a healthy pregnancy, according to the CP.

Pregnant women who have morning sickness are less likely to have a miscarriage and less likely to have babies with congenital cardiovascular problems.

-ends-

its my birthday again :)

salam...
i'm thankful for His bless n giving me the opportunity to celebrate my 27th birthday today, alhamdulillah... what did i get for this birthday? ermmmm, so many things but the most greatest gift is; Kiki gonna have sibling soon :D

well, actually its too soon to tell, but i cant hold it to myself.. haha... but its ok cos tak ramai yg view this blog pun! haha...
what else ha? ermm.. tu ja la... just wanna say "THANK YOU ALLAH"...

25 WAYS TO TALK SO YOUR CHILDREN WILL LISTEN

A major part of discipline is learning how to talk with children. The way you talk to your child teaches him how to talk to others. Here are some talking tips we have learned with our children:

1. Connect before you direct
Before giving your child directions, squat to your child's eye level and engage your child in eye-to-eye contact to get his attention. Teach him how to focus: "Mary, I need your eyes." "Billy, I need your ears." Offer the same body language when listening to the child. Be sure not to make your eye contact so intense that your child perceives it as controlling rather than connecting.

2. Address the child
Open your request with the child's name, "Lauren, will you please..."

3. Stay brief
We use the one-sentence rule: Put the main directive in the opening sentence. The longer you ramble, the more likely your child is to become parent-deaf. Too much talking is a very common mistake when dialoging about an issue. It gives the child the feeling that you're not quite sure what it is you want to say. If she can keep you talking she can get you sidetracked.

4. Stay simple
Use short sentences with one-syllable words. Listen to how kids communicate with each other and take note. When your child shows that glazed, disinterested look, you are no longer being understood.

5. Ask your child to repeat the request back to youIf he can't, it's too long or too complicated.

6. Make an offer the child can't refuse
You can reason with a two or three-year-old, especially to avoid power struggles. "Get dressed so you can go outside and play." Offer a reason for your request that is to the child's advantage, and one that is difficult to refuse. This gives her a reason to move out of her power position and do what you want her to do.

7. Be positive
Instead of "no running," try: "Inside we walk, outside you may run."

8. Begin your directives with "I want."Instead of "Get down," say "I want you to get down." Instead of "Let Becky have a turn," say "I want you to let Becky have a turn now." This works well with children who want to please but don't like being ordered. By saying "I want," you give a reason for compliance rather than just an order.

9. "When...then."
"When you get your teeth brushed, then we'll begin the story." "When your work is finished, then you can watch TV." "When," which implies that you expect obedience, works better than "if," which suggests that the child has a choice when you don't mean to give him one.

10. Legs first, mouth second
Instead of hollering, "Turn off the TV, it's time for dinner!" walk into the room where your child is watching TV, join in with your child's interests for a few minutes, and then, during a commercial break, have your child turn off the TV. Going to your child conveys you're serious about your request; otherwise children interpret this as a mere preference.

11. Give choices
"Do you want to put your pajamas on or brush your teeth first?" "Red shirt or blue one?"

12. Speak developmentally correctly
The younger the child, the shorter and simpler your directives should be. Consider your child's level of understanding. For example, a common error parents make is asking a three-year- old, "Why did you do that?" Most adults can't always answer that question about their behavior. Try instead, "Let's talk about what you did."

13. Speak socially correctly
Even a two-year-old can learn "please." Expect your child to be polite. Children shouldn't feel manners are optional. Speak to your children the way you want them to speak to you.

14. Speak psychologically correctly
Threats and judgmental openers are likely to put the child on the defensive. "You" messages make a child clam up. "I" messages are non-accusing. Instead of "You'd better do this..." or "You must...," try "I would like...." or "I am so pleased when you..." Instead of "You need to clear the table," say "I need you to clear the table." Don't ask a leading question when a negative answer is not an option. "Will you please pick up your coat?" Just say, "Pick up your coat, please."

15. Write it
Reminders can evolve into nagging so easily, especially for preteens who feel being told things puts them in the slave category. Without saying a word you can communicate anything you need said. Talk with a pad and pencil. Leave humorous notes for your child. Then sit back and watch it happen.

16. Talk the child down
The louder your child yells, the softer you respond. Let your child ventilate while you interject timely comments: "I understand" or "Can I help?" Sometimes just having a caring listener available will wind down the tantrum. If you come in at his level, you have two tantrums to deal with. Be the adult for him.

17. Settle the listener
Before giving your directive, restore emotional equilibrium, otherwise you are wasting your time. Nothing sinks in when a child is an emotional wreck.

18. Replay your message
Toddlers need to be told a thousand times. Children under two have difficulty internalizing your directives. Most three- year-olds begin to internalize directives so that what you ask begins to sink in. Do less and less repeating as your child gets older. Preteens regard repetition as nagging.

19. Let your child complete the thought
Instead of "Don't leave your mess piled up," try: "Matthew, think of where you want to store your soccer stuff." Letting the child fill in the blanks is more likely to create a lasting lesson.

20. Use rhyme rules.
"If you hit, you must sit." Get your child to repeat them.

21. Give likable alternatives
You can't go by yourself to the park; but you can play in the neighbor's yard.

22. Give advance notice
"We are leaving soon. Say bye-bye to the toys, bye-bye to the girls…"

23. Open up a closed child
Carefully chosen phrases open up closed little minds and mouths. Stick to topics that you know your child gets excited about. Ask questions that require more than a yes or no. Stick to specifics. Instead of "Did you have a good day at school today?" try "What is the most fun thing you did today?"

24. Use "When you…I feel…because…"
When you run away from mommy in the store I feel worried because you might get lost.

25. Close the discussion
If a matter is really closed to discussion, say so. "I'm not changing my mind about this. Sorry." You'll save wear and tear on both you and your child. Reserve your "I mean business" tone of voice for when you do.

*source: www.askdrsears.com

riang ria raya :D

* mummy terover excited.. huhu

* kiki wit da cousins